A Shout Out to Wound Ostomy and Continence Nurses

“I’d like you ask you something, ” a patient said to the nurse. “Are you Asian?”

The nurse, Caucasian, said,  “No, I’m not. What makes you ask?”

“Your name. On your badge. It says Debbie WOCN.  And that last name sounds Asian.”

Last Saturday, I heard this story from an attendee at the Mideast Region Wound Ostomy and Continence Nurses Society conference where I spoke on why nurses should write about their nursing lives.

I stressed that one reason we should write is to educate the public about who we are, what we know, what we do, and why we do it. I mentioned that, to begin with, people don’t know what the alphabet soup after our names means. We have multiple points of entry into our profession, multiple degrees, and multiple certifications.

So, no wonder this patient asked this nurse if her last name, WOCN, was Asian. The nurse explained to me that in her hospital their name badges have their first names only, followed by their credentials. And she is certified in Wound Ostomy Continence nursing (WOCN). She has specialized in this area, taken advanced coursework, and passed a certification exam. In addition, she keeps up with attending classes to earn continuing education units required to renew her certification.

Know also as ET’s, Enterostomal Therapists, these registered nurses (RNs) are the ones you want to know if you develop problems in their area of specialty. From looking over their conference sessions, I saw that, even as a retired nurse, I have friends or family members with several of the problems addressed and could use their knowledge and assistance: caring for patients with an ostomy of any kind, assessing and treating the skin around an ostomy, learning how to strengthen pelvic floor muscles to curb incontinence, caring for patients with lymphedema caused by various conditions (you may be familiar with this happening after removal of lymph nodes in the armpit region during surgery for breast cancer) …and much more.

It was easy to encourage these nursing experts to write about what they know, do, and why they do it. Articles on any of the above would be of benefit to a host of readers!

I thank this group of nurses for asking me to speak at their conference. It was an honor to be among the presence of these knowledgeable and dedicated professionals and to be attended to by my host, Catherine Clarey-Stanford, MSN, RN, nursing faculty member, Hope College, Holland, Michigan.

It was gratifying to meet a former student of mine from St. Xavier University in the early 90s, to hear of someone’s mother who was a fellow Blodgett Hospital School of Nursing grad, but years before me, sending me her greetings, and to have my former student from Trinity Christian College, and Michigan publicist, Amy Nagelkirk, assisting with sales of  Caring Lessons.

The conference was held at the stunningly beautiful Amway Grand Plaza in downtown Grand Rapids, Michigan. When I was growing up, I lived nearby for a while and use to marvel at what was then the Pantlind Hotel.  On this return visit, I was privileged to speak in the “old-world elegance” of the Pantlind Ballroom.

And, as a final big thank you, this group of nurses knows how to treat nurses. Imagine my surprise when I entered my two-room suite in the new glass tower to find wine, cheese, and crackers waiting. I called my husband and told him what he was missing. He reminded me, with a chuckle, I’d not invited him along.

So, I enjoyed my suite, the view of the Grand River and a zillion Japanese Lanterns flying by my 20th floor window from Art Prize all by myself. More about those floating lights in the sky later.

Once a nurse, always a nurse…

I turned on my computer this morning to find this message:

Congratulations on Saving Lives for 50 Years!  Today marks the 50th anniversary of our graduation from BMH School of Nursing . Do you have any memories of that day?

The greeting came from our committee chair for our fiftieth reunion that we’re having next month. Our committee of nine has been planning this three-day event for almost a year.

Do I have memories of my student days? Oh my, do I ever. Surviving an almost militaristic three-year diploma program, giving each other our first shots in our buttocks, staffing the whole hospital on nights, relinquishing our chairs for doctors when they entered the nurses’ station, administering my first enema, starting my first IV, stepping aside to let doctors get on and off elevators before we did, and many more.

Some of these stories are in Caring Lessons. I’m sure after this reunion I would be able to write another book!

Here are four of  us all gussied up for graduation (I’m on the right). Note our white leather lace-up oxfords, opaque support hose, long-sleeved starched uniforms with cuffed sleeves (I still have my cufflinks), starched caps, and professional stance.

Almost three-quarters of our class of forty will be attending this reunion. I’m sure most of us will have lost these waistlines, but we will not have lost our hard-earned identity of being a nurse.

I firmly believe, that no matter how much (or little) we’ve practiced nursing these fifty years, our nursing identity, our passion for caring for and about people from all walks of life,  yes, for saving lives, is forever engraved on our hearts.

THE AMERICAN NURSE PROJECT

Reblogged from Marianna Crane:

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The American Nurse Project aims to elevate and celebrate nurses in this country by capturing their personal stories through photography and film. Photographer Carolyn Jones and her team traveled to every corner of the U.S. to record the unique experiences of nurses at work. The photographs and narratives shed light on what it means to be a nurse in our country, and who the women and men are who have pledged their lives to the care of others.

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Here's your opportunity to meet nurses first hand. Click, see, and listen to evidence of their knowledge, motivations, and skills. Thanks, Marianna, for posting. Lois

Caring Lessons in the Nursing Classroom

Nursing faculty: Are you planning textbooks for your fall courses?

I invite you to consider Caring Lessons: A Nursing Professor’s Journey of Faith and Self  as a good choice for a recommended or required reading in courses related to career development. Caring Lessons chronicles my forty years in nursing, from diploma to PhD and nurse’s aide to professor.

“I had no idea” is a frequent response I’ve had to the book. The rigor of our educational process amazes readers. And the versatility of our career options. And our ability to juggle career, advanced schooling, and parenthood.

Backing up a bit, as a newly published author nearly two years ago, the first nursing dean I contacted was Dr. Sue Dunn, Chairperson of the Nursing Program at Hope College in Holland, Michigan. When I told her I was driving through and would like to discuss my new book with her, she immediately suggested meeting in a cozy restaurant near the college.

Her first words to me were: “I love your book.” Since that day, she has been a faithful supporter, inviting me to present on her campus and using Caring Lessons as a text for a nursing course.  Afterwards she emailed me:

My students loved the book and found the study guide questions helpful in stimulating deeper thinking about how aspects of the book may apply to themselves as nursing students and future nurses. I would definitely recommend the book for other nursing programs.

Susan Dunn, PhD, RN
Chairperson and Associate Professor
Hope College Nursing Department
35 East 12th St
Holland MI  49423

Thank you so much, Dr. Dunn, for your encouragement and for giving me permission to add your words to this site. And for planning to use Caring Lessons as a required text again this fall!

If you have questions, you may contact me at caringlessons@aol.com. For a review copy, contact rhonda@bringitoncommunications.com.

Another Retirement Crisis

You’d think I’d be having a heat-related crisis today—it’s the third day in Chicago of heat indexes over one hundred—but instead I’m having my second identity crisis of the year. The first was in May when, after fifty years, I could not give up my registered nurse license and, at the last minute, clicked myself on “inactive” status. Now I never plan to practice nursing again, but I hadn’t earned the newly required continuing education credits to renew my license and had thought it was the perfect anniversary date to let it go.

So, with my RN identity in a state of flux, I’m now in another crisis. The purse-sized “Academic Appointment “ book, running from July to August, that I’ve ordered online for umpteen years was out of stock by the time I got around to ordering it. I called the help line and a pleasant woman listened to my passionate plea to please tell the powers-that-be to print more, and then she guided me to another academic style book she was sure I’d like. So I ordered it—not cheap—along with shipping, it was about $20.00.

This new book is not working. I took it along on a recent four-hour flight to copy over the address and phone section information. First, the cover was a stiff synthetic. My old covers were flexible leather. Second, the new one had limited pages for addresses and phone numbers.  Third, It had a month-at-a-glance page I didn’t need. I ended up transferring my fall information twice, once on the monthly page and again on the weekly page. Fourth, the stiff cover was a hair taller and wider which, in its inflexibility, proved to be wa-a-a-y too tall and wide. And fifth, when I flipped through the pages they tended to “catch” on the spiral binding. That never happened with my lovely flexible leather casing.

Trying to work with my new book, all I accomplished was raising my level of angst and wasting half of my flight time. I could have been pleasantly reading or watching the movie with my husband. But I had to make do. After all, I paid twenty bucks for it.

But last week, without planning to, I bought another appointment book. I happened to be in a bookstore—yes, some still exist—making a trip to the restroom before my mile walk home. And there on the table in front of that little girls room were the prettiest little purse-sized appointment books with flexible covers! One style sported a lime green cover with bright pink flowers that said, “Seize the day and Make it Yours! Appreciate the simple Things… Two-Year-Plus Pocket Planner  August 2012-December 2014.”*

The cover and script screamed for my attention. The book sellers must have set up the table in that location just for me. Plus, they had to have known that one of my nieces once said, “Aunt Lois, if you don’t like something, cut your losses and move on.”

Was it time to move on?

I bought the book. And that was the beginning of my second identity crisis. This jazzy book will be a transition from my academic book to one based on the calendar year.  After December 2014, I’ll have to switch my mind to calendar year thinking.  I’ll have to change my identity forever from perpetual student and long-time teacher to a normal everyday person.

The soft flexible book cost $5.00.

I’ve now spent a half hour erasing everything I’d entered into the $20.00 stiff book and will mail it to my granddaughter. Maybe she can use it at college.

Next, of course, I’ll have to learn how to throw out appointment books that come with pages for names, addresses, and phone numbers and put all that information, plus more, into my new iPhone. Then my calendars will become perpetual. No more worries about academic versus calendar years.

But, please, not too quickly. I need time to adjust.

*Book source: Sellers Publishing Inc. / http://www.makefun.com

Review of Caring Lessons by Mary A. Osborne, Nurse and Author

I’m happy to present a recent Amazon review of Caring Lessons: A Nursing Professor’s Journey of Faith and Self  by Mary A. Osborne, nurse and author of Nonna’s Book of Fiction,  titled A Purpose Driven Life:

It is an act of bravery to reveal one’s life story in detail, to express one’s struggles and fears publicly. Done skillfully, memoirs tell the truth while transforming an ordinary life into an inspiring narrative. Lois Roelofs Ph.D. worked an R.N. in various capacities–from staff nurse, to nurse researcher, to nursing professor–before she decided to share her journey in Caring Lessons: A Nursing Professor’s Journey of Faith and Self. The book is a thoughtful and authentic chronicle of the author’s life from her nursing student days through her early retirement.

As an RN myself, I could easily relate to Roelofs’ story, written with candor and humor, and her ongoing quest to find the nursing position which best suited her unique talents. She writes with honesty about an episode of depression which she suffered during the early years of her marriage in the 1970′s. Feeling overwhelmed with the demands of caring for her two small children and dissatisfied with having set aside her own ambitions, she reached a breaking point.

In Caring Lessons, Roelofs expresses what other married women might feel but are perhaps not willing to speak aloud. Though forty years have passed since the author took a personal time-out, it is still risky for a woman who has a caring husband, beautiful children, and a nice house to admit she’s feeling hemmed in. Women who are lucky enough to have all the material blessings in life are supposed to be content and grateful. Roelofs’ story reminds women that it is all right to feel discontent and encourages them to continue the journey in search of personal fulfillment despite the inevitable obstacles that are encountered.

Author Lois Roelofs

Author Lois Roelofs (Photo credit: Lansing Public Library, Lansing Illinois)

After reading about her episode of depression, it was not surprising to me when Roelofs later described her decision to specialize in psychiatric nursing. The best healers are often those who have journeyed through their own pain and learned to find true compassion for others. I would describe Lois Roelofs’ nursing career not as a profession, but as a vocation. With tireless dedication driven both by intellectual curiosity and the desire to follow the ideals of her Christian faith, the author has lived a truly purpose-driven life. There are many who admire nurses and the work they do. Caring Lessons is a wonderful reminder of why many of those who enter the profession become earthly angels.

Caring Lessons is an inspiring read for nurses and those who aspire to the field, as well as those who are curious about the behind the scenes lives of nurses and nursing educators.

Thanks, Mary, for your insightful and beautifully written review! It was great meeting you serendipitously at AWP last fall. And, readers, you will enjoy learning about Mary’s Nonna’s Book of Mysteries here.

Coming next Monday: Caregivers Write Your Stories (#4)

Nurse Staffing Makes Headlines Again

Nurses and nursing

Nurses and nursing

Have you been hospitalized lately? If so, this NPR story about nurse staffing will interest you.

How long did it take for a nurse to answer your call bell? How often did a nurse come to assess your status? How much time did the nurse have to spend with you?

I’m not surprised with the results of these surveys. I could have said the same thing forty years ago when I was working on a med-surg floor–1 RN, 4 aides, 32 patients.

Patients are sicker now than then, but adequate staffing has always been a problem. It’s unnerving that the situation never gets resolved. And, unfortunately, until we figure out how to pay for health care in this nation, we may see similar survey results forty years from now.

Photo credit: Wikipedia

Nurses Week 2012: Florence Nightingale’s Birthday (1820-1910)

Florence Nightingale, also known as the Lady w...

Florence Nightingale, also known as the  Lady with the Lamp, providing care to  wounded and ill soldiers during the Crimean War

You may have more in common with Florence Nightingale than you think! To honor this “founder of modern nursing” on her birthday, I’d like to share  Ms. Nightingale’s view of life as a woman in her Victorian era:

“The morning is spent sitting round a table in the drawing room looking at prints, doing worsted work, reading little books. Everybody reads aloud from their own book or newspaper and every five minutes something is said. The afternoon is passed in taking little drives….when night comes women suffer physically the accumulation of nervous energy which had nothing to do all day and makes them feel every night when they go to bed as if they are going mad.” (*p. 14)

I’m forever thankful that Ms. Nightingale was a feminist before her time, rebelling against her Victorian life and proceeding to blaze the trail of modern nursing.

I can identify with her. I’d be no good sitting around doing handwork… How about you?

*Source: Monica Baly (Ed.). 1991. As Miss Nightingale said… London: Scutari Press.

Photo credit: Wikipedia

Nurses Week 2012: Free Chance to View Nursing Journals!

Here’s an opportunity to peruse an array of nursing journals for free! Scroll through NOW–you may find one or a few helpful to you in your practice. This free offer ends on May 12, the final day of Nurses Week.

Thanks to publishers Wolters Kluwer / Lippincott Williams & Wilkins for this professional recognition during Nurses Week.

 

Nurses Week 2012 / A Nurse Practitioner in Reiki Practice

This image depicts a Reiki treatment in progre...

This image depicts a Reiki treatment in progress.

Jane Van De Velde, nurse practitioner, writes this week on “Once a Nurse, Always a Nurse” on my friend Marianna Crane’s blog. Click to read how Dr. Van De Velde incorporates the skills she’s learned in nursing into her holistic practice of Reiki. And learn more about the healing power of Reiki at her Reiki Share Project site.

Indeed, once a nurse, always a nurse! During this week honoring nurses, I welcome you to join me tonight at Palos Heights Public Library in Palos Heights, IL, 6:30-8pm, to talk about how caregivers of all kinds can share their stories.

Photo Credit: Wikipedia / Author: James Logan; Uploaded by Andy Beer with agreement of author and models.