Grief at Twenty-four Months: A Rummage Sale Made Me Do It

On this second anniversary of my husband's death, I've made an unplanned purge of his belongings. Our church's rummage sale, first canceled due to the virus, then reinstated a few months later, prompted me to do it. Just two years and two days ago, Marv directed our daughter to take his cords to our church's …

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Grief at Twenty-three Months: More Writing

As I was approaching this two-year mark of my husband's death, I noticed not all is well yet as I'd hoped. I wasn't expecting the impact of loss to disappear, but I was hoping for fewer experiences of active grieving. This past month, a few members of Marv's family have passed away. That brought grieving …

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Grief at Twenty-two Months: Write Along with Me

Time heals all wounds is a cliché that’s been around a long time.  And disputed as well.  Counselor Worth Kilcrease wrote “time [alone] does not heal all wounds.  A more apt saying is ‘It’s what you do with the time that heals’” (Psychology Today, April 24, 2008). Time is an “active, working process, not a …

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Pandemic quarantine angst? Blow off some steam today!

I could not have said it better. Reblogged from the Chicago Writers Association. Can We Call This Thing Off, Already? by Samantha Hoffman I've had it. I'm over this pandemic. I've had it up to here with living this history, something to tell my grandchildren which I'll never have because I never had children, and I can't …

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Grief at Nineteen Months: Blindside Wipeout and Surprise Mochas

Surprises happen most days in my newish-widow life. Fun things like trying to shovel thick sheets of ice off the driveway when no amount of pushing and grunting will dislodge an inch. Or trying to get excited about making dinner when I don't yet know my way around a grocery store. Or trying to keep …

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