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Blogging as a Retired Nurse

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      • Chapter 1 – Sweet Little Hoitie
      • Chapter 2 – A Matter of Attitude
      • Chapter 3 – Shift Work
      • Chapter 4 – Rotten Potatoes
      • Chapter 5 – Running Away
      • Chapter 6 – Time-out
      • Chapter 7 – Finding a Friend
      • Chapter 8 – Diploma Mentality
      • Chapter 9 – Breaking the Mold
      • Chapter 10 – Bluffing It
      • Chapter 11 – Meeting Sadie
      • Chapter 12 – Cleaning House
      • Chapter 13 – Liverwurst
      • Chapter 14 – Oscar Mayer Weiner
      • Chapter 15 – Cogito Ergo Sum
      • Chapter 16 – First Shots
      • Chapter 17 – Nothing Physical
      • Chapter 18 – Fancy Title
      • Chapter 19 – No Surprises, Be Legal
      • Chapter 20 – Sister Mary Holy Water
      • Chapter 21 – Getting Organized
      • Chapter 22 – Sadie Tomczyk
      • Chapter 23 — Going Back
      • Chapter 24 — Things I Tried
      • Chapter 25 — Storms of Illness
      • Chapter 26 — Cancer
      • Chapter 27 — Trusting God
      • Chapter 28 — On My Way
    • Reviews of Caring Lessons
      • Endorsements
      • Nursing Program Recommendation
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      • Speaking Recommendations
  • Marv Taking Charge
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    • Podcasts / Marv Taking Charge
  • Stories
    • An American at a Russian Bliny Tasting Party
    • Iowa Summer Writing Festival – Personal Essay
    • Thoughts on False vs True Selves on a Snowy Day in Chicago
    • Waters of Bethesda
    • Graduation Water
    • Iowa Summer Writing Festival – Rant
    • Saying Farewell to My Nursing Files
    • Two Nurses’ Karaoke Debut

Category: writing

Life at 82: J is for Joy

On April 11, 2024 By Lois RoelofsIn aging, Health, memoir, writing5 Comments

Here I am with two of my sisters, Rose and Esther, during happier times. They have both passed away. It was Rose, as an experienced widow, who told me when Marv died that I must find joy in my life every day. She said Joy would not come looking for me. I must look for …

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Life at 82: I is for I

On April 10, 2024April 10, 2024 By Lois RoelofsIn humor, memoir, travel, writing11 Comments

I is for I as in me. I may have begun to learn that I must curtail my traveling a bit at 82. Yesterday I endured an 11-hour day flying day with one nearly three-hour layover at O'Hare. The day included three gate changes, including a concourse change, at O'Hare, a $24 lunch of a …

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H is for Heavy

On April 8, 2024April 9, 2024 By Lois RoelofsIn writingLeave a comment

Participating in the Blogging from A to Z April Challenge This week I'm at the Calvin Faith & Writing Festival. Calvin College (now University) is where I met my late husband. In this poem, Mary Oliver speaks about grief and laughter, both of which are present in a widow's journey. It's been almost six years …

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Life at 82: G is for Grrrr…

On April 8, 2024April 7, 2024 By Lois RoelofsIn memoir, writing, aging, humor8 Comments

Participating in the Blogging from A to Z in April Challenge Just when I think I’m on a break concerning finances, on my way to church yesterday, a fraud alert dinged on my watch. The watch face is too small to read, especially when I’m driving, so I planned to check my phone once I …

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Life at 82: F is for Finances

On April 6, 2024April 6, 2024 By Lois RoelofsIn aging, humor, memoir, writing8 Comments

Participating in the Blogging from A to Z April Challenge After 1000 hours of gut ache, my taxes are finished…or at least until my CPA calls me to tell me what is missing. Last week: I get back from AZ and think doing taxes will take me one day. I have copious notes and several …

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Life at 82: D is for Diet

On April 4, 2024April 3, 2024 By Lois RoelofsIn aging, friends, Health, memoir, writing1 Comment

Participating in the Blogging from A to Z April Challenge Diet. Such a hated word. Who wants to deprive themselves anyway? It seems like I’ve been dieting most of my life. In my thirties already, I graduated TOPS and became a KOP (keep off pounds sensibly). The meetings were so much fun. We’d joined a …

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Life at 82: C is for Clutter

On April 3, 2024April 6, 2024 By Lois RoelofsIn aging, humor, memoir, writing6 Comments

Three months of accumulated partially-sorted mail Who wants to hear more about clutter? Google the word and you’ll find dozens of definitions. What I’m talking about is the stuff that accumulates in your home. Perhaps it all has a place, but you haven’t had time yet, or taken the time, to put it away. A …

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Life at 82: B is for Ballooning

On April 2, 2024April 2, 2024 By Lois RoelofsIn aging, humor, memoir, writing19 Comments

Vicariously enjoying the balloons on my way to the airport coming home... I did it, finally. I signed up to take a hot air balloon ride a few weeks ago while in AZ. I'd wanted to do this the last couple of years, but health stuff got in the way. Two years ago a hip …

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Life at 82: A is for Aging

On April 1, 2024March 31, 2024 By Lois RoelofsIn aging, humor, memoir, writing7 Comments

Participating in the Blogging from A to Z April Challenge Write along with me! What does aging mean to you? In general, aging means the process of getting older. Duh! In this Blogging from A to Z April Challenge, I will be writing about my own life at 82. Thinking about aging, I’ve complained a …

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April Blogging from A to Z Theme Reveal, 2024

On March 13, 2024March 13, 2024 By Lois RoelofsIn aging, humor, memoir, writing18 Comments

As you read a day or two ago, I've decided to do the A to Z Challenge again. I do it for fun, not necessarily to educate as has been my life's work! If you feel smarter after reading my posts, so be it! If you can nod in agreement or get a chuckle, that …

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