S is for Saying Farewell to My Nursing Files

I stand here by a wall of metal file cabinets—three in a row, four drawers each—a nursing career of memories nestled in the southwest corner of my study. My life’s work written on hundreds, maybe thousands, of pages hanging neatly in file folders. After twenty-two years in our three-bedroom house in suburban Chicago, I am …

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O is for Omniscient, Omnipresent, and Omnipotent

An entry for the Blogging from A to Z in April Challenge Finding a word (or words) for the letter O was a no-brainer. From childhood, these attributes of God have lived in my heart. Having this vocabulary to describe God's presence in my life has grounded me and given me comfort all these years. …

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Grief at Twenty-four Months: A Rummage Sale Made Me Do It

On this second anniversary of my husband's death, I've made an unplanned purge of his belongings. Our church's rummage sale, first canceled due to the virus, then reinstated a few months later, prompted me to do it. Just two years and two days ago, Marv directed our daughter to take his cords to our church's …

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Grief at Twenty-three Months: More Writing

As I was approaching this two-year mark of my husband's death, I noticed not all is well yet as I'd hoped. I wasn't expecting the impact of loss to disappear, but I was hoping for fewer experiences of active grieving. This past month, a few members of Marv's family have passed away. That brought grieving …

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