Belt Loops, Tennis Shoes, and “Marv Taking Charge”

It's rain-snowing as I write. Thirty-eight degrees. The kind of day to stay in your PJ's and sit by the fire. Never mind it's April in South Dakota. So what shall I do first on this fine Saturday? Since my books, Marv Taking Charge, arrived last week, I think I must deal with the personal …

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“Marv Taking Charge” Now Available – (A “saying no to chemo” story )

Marv Taking Charge: A Story of Bold Love and Courage is now available from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or me. If you would like to buy directly from me, you may send a check for $15 to: Lois Roelofs, 5013 S Louise Ave, Box 232, Sioux Falls, South Dakota, 57108-2268 All my proceeds, except for …

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Countdown – Two Weeks to Publication ( A “saying no to chemo” story)

Finally! Marv Taking Charge: A Story of Bold Love and Courage is scheduled for release on April 18, 2023. The book is available for pre-order at Amazon and Barnes & Noble. If you would like to buy directly from me, please email me at caringlessons@gmail.com. All my proceeds, except for S/H, will be donated to …

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Countdown – Five Weeks to Publication ( A “saying no to chemo” story)

Finally, Marv Taking Charge: A Story of Bold Love and Courage will become a reality! I hope to have books in hand by mid to late April. An introduction: Lois Roelofs always knew that Marv, her husband of fifty-five years, had strong convictions. So when he was diagnosed with “very aggressive” small cell lung cancer, …

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Growing Older: What road are you on today? And what lies ahead?

I am in AZ, far from the snowstorms in my home state. It's tranquil here and almost eerily quiet. I have time to simply stare at the sun-soaked landscape and dream. When I took this photo yesterday, I thought of Robert Frost's poem The Road Not Taken. Rather than look back at what roads I've …

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Courageous, Gutsy, or Just Plain Nutsy?

"Are you saving this seat for your husband?" "Are you expecting someone?" "Who are you traveling with?" I was asked these questions often on my recent cruise. I would sit in various places on the ship to listen to the music being offered--classical piano, a string duo, or a guitarist playing songs from my era. …

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Growing Older : On Turning 81 or Birds in the Bathroom

I’m celebrating this birthday with a two-week Viking cruise in Central America. Apart from lots of history, this is what I have learned so far: 1. There are birds chirping and cawing in a public bathroom that I’ve used several times. I don’t know if they are in the ceiling or not. They may be …

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